Ogiri John Ogiri

By Ogiri John Ogiri  Quite often, in our quest for credible leadership, we mistake popularity for capacity. Sometimes, our emotional attachment to an intending leader who is relatively popular, usually denies us the golden opportunity to scrutinise the individual and what he or she claims to represent. What are his intentions and interests? What are his credentials? What has he done before? What can he do? These are obvious questions we need to ask. However, we often do not interrogate these variables in the individual. We think his popularity is enough to help him or her win but forget to also think and remember that only capacity can keep him in power for long. When it comes to the issue of leadership, there is a huge difference between popularity and capacity. A leader can be popular without being capable. If he has the capacity, popularity will follow but capacity won't follow popularity. Our leadership predicament both as a people and as a country stems from our inability to c...

By Ogiri John Ogiri. If you believe that you can die an untimely death, you are right because you will.  But, if you believe that you will live longer, you are equally right because you will. If you believe you will fail, you are right because you will.  But, if you believe you can succeed, you are equally right because you can. If you believe that someone is controlling or can control your destiny, you are right because they are.  But If you believe that your destiny is in your hands, you are right too because it is in your hands. If you believe that someone can kill you because of your success, you are right because he/she can. But, if you believe that no one can hurt you, you are right too because no one can do that. If you believe that you will never make it out of poverty, you are right because you will remain poor. But, if you believe that you will prosper, you are right too because you will. If you believe that your village people are responsible for all your pre...

Dear Mr. President, I commend your leadership dexterity and wisdom for signing into law, yesterday and very speedily so, the bill seeking to make us revert to the old national anthem "Nigeria, We Hail Thee"  However, it is important that the following few points are urgently brought to your attention so that we do not end up taking residence in self-deception as a country. Mr President Sir,  In our churches today, hungry people no longer have the strength to answer "Hallelujah" to the shout of "praise the Lord!" In our mosques, shouting"Allahu Akbar" takes great effort because we are not sure if the imam calling people to pray has eaten well. Because they are hungry, it is difficult for them to keep praying for the same Nigeria others keep destroying.  In the same way, a hungry man cannot hail Nigeria. A man who can no longer afford the three square meals, thanks to your unfriendly economic policies, may never be proud to hail Nigeria...

Three categories of women are always identifiable:  1. Those who plan to make money from you,  2. Those who plan to make money with you. 3. Those who plan to make money for you. The first one sees every relationship as transactionary so that how much you get from them in love is directly proportional to how much money they can get from you. They can tax you without any consideration.They're interested in today, not tomorrow.  The second category sees relationship as a journey that requires a selfless commitment to each other, bearing and making personal sacrifices together with the man as they walk from grass to grace. They usually don't demand anything from you. Just be true to them. Be hardworking and focused. Once they identify the vision in you, they can pledge their everything. They're not fools but they can overlook your shortcomings when you falter. Hold women in this group very dearly and guard them jealously. Don't disappoint them when you finally succeed. Tho...