Categories of Women in Relationships

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Three categories of women are always identifiable: 

1. Those who plan to make money from you, 

2. Those who plan to make money with you.

3. Those who plan to make money for you.

The first one sees every relationship as transactionary so that how much you get from them in love is directly proportional to how much money they can get from you. They can tax you without any consideration.They're interested in today, not tomorrow. 

The second category sees relationship as a journey that requires a selfless commitment to each other, bearing and making personal sacrifices together with the man as they walk from grass to grace. They usually don't demand anything from you. Just be true to them. Be hardworking and focused. Once they identify the vision in you, they can pledge their everything. They're not fools but they can overlook your shortcomings when you falter. Hold women in this group very dearly and guard them jealously. Don't disappoint them when you finally succeed.

Those in the third category can do anything including making out with other men just to make money for their men. They mean well for their men but they can be dominating. They want to be the ones holding the ace. They're passionate about the relationship but such passion is usually misdirected to the wrong process and means of survival so that in the end, the happiness they seek becomes punctured when the truth begins to unfold.

Find the one that suits your vision and get married. Be wise.

Happy New Year.

© Ogiri John Ogiri.

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