Unforgiveness

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"The real witches and wizards are not those women and men who transform into something else in order to fly at night; the real witches and wizards are those women and men who don't forgive. They are those women and men who go to bed with so much bitterness in their hearts and minds. Yet they pray for a good night's rest as they go to bed each day . Just imagine it. Isn't that funny? How can you ever have a good night's rest with so much bitterness and unforgivingness in your heart and mind? You can never have rest unless you forgive that person. Sometimes those mysterious monsters you see in your dreams are the bitterness and unforgivingness you have allowed to dwell and fester in your mind for so long. You remain a wandering or vagabond spirit at night unless you empty your mind of bitterness and unforgivingness. Do yourself a favour by taking a break off malice and bitterness towards others. Forgive others. Forgive yourself. Let it go and you will be happy. That's the only time you can ever hope to have a good night's rest whenever you sleep".-Ogiri John Ogiri
(Culled from " How To Achieve Real Happiness in Life" unpublished by Ogiri John Ogiri)

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