Different Ways Men and Women View Sex.

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By Ogiri John Ogiri.
Sex is a very interesting but special experience created by nature (God) for the enjoyment of His creatures so that both the human society and animal society can continue to create and recreate itself in an unfettered evolutionary process. In fact, God ended the creation of man and animals several centuries ago. Consequently, the over 7 billion people who occupy the earth today were not created by God's traditional means of moulding a clay and breathing air into it. They were conceived through man's recreative ability through sex and other means of having children. 
In the same manner, several millions of different species of animals on earth today were created through their own God-given abilities in sexual evolution.

 Sexual intercourse is so crucial that, despite the increasing technological sophistication in child-bearing, it is still the dominant and most preferred means of having children today. Aside procreation, sex is equally had for the pleasure that comes with it. Besides, sex has been seen as one of the most mutually beneficial exercises for the consented parties. Its positive impact on human mental and emotional stability is affirmed by several psychologists. 

However, people's perspectives on sex differ from one individual of the opposite genders to the other.

To most men, sex is just a mere avenue for dissipating tension; this is why a husband of the most beautiful wife can still have sex outside marriage. It doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife; but, to him, sex is just a regular exercise to release tension and maintain his emotional shape.
 On the other hand, to most women, sex is a very special expression of love for their men. This is why a beautiful woman of the ugliest man can still be faithful.

Again, most men love because they have sex; hence they're stimulated by what they see. For a man, all that he needs for sex to take place are the sight of a woman's exposed body curvatures, her nakedness and a place. Hence, a woman who avoids the "place" a man needs to have sex cannot easily be manipulated into having the sex for which she's emotionally unprepared.

Whereas, most women have sex because they love. Hence, they're stimulated by how they feel. This corroborates the age-old assertion that true sex doesn't begin in the bedroom but ends in the bedroom so that while a woman needs a reason to have sex, a man needs, among other reasons, a place to have sex.

Understanding these differentials in sexual perceptions between men and women is a strong step in understanding the behavioural variables underlying human sexuality.

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