Nugget of Reality

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"Before you listen to anybody, first listen to yourself. What can you hear from you? Before you advise anyone,or take any advice from anyone, first advise yourself. Before teaching someone, first teach yourself. Before you can understand anyone, you must first understand yourself. Before loving someone,first love yourself.The reason is simple; you cannot give what you lack." -Ogiri John Ogiri

(Culled from "How To Achieve Real Happiness in Life" unpublished by Ogiri John Ogiri.)

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