The Need for Decency in Dressing

By Ogiri John Ogiri 

Sometimes ago, when we used to attend weddings in churches and other social events, we didn't have to worry about wearing body-fitted boxers and pants as boys because we knew everyone, particularly the ladies in the bridal train, would be decently dressed in their attires so that no accidental erection due to the sight of indecent exposure would put us in a position where we would have to ask God not to let us fall into temptations. 

Today however, things have changed with the dawn of a permissive kind of modernism with its own weird fashion culture and a funny dress sense. Now, as men, we have to attend weddings in churches and other social events with strong underwears tied to our loins; one strong enough to hold our manhoods in check in case of any accidental erection in the house of God. Yes, the male Penis is a very shameless organ which doesn't care whether its owner is in a holy place or not. That is how irresponsible it can be.

To the ladies who dress in that public manner that provokes unannounced erections in men in public, it means nothing. But to the men who, at the sight of such natural endowments, have to constantly worry about the challenge of controlling and taming the irresponsibility of the Penis in public, revealing dresses mean a lot to their sense of sex. I am sure you have experienced the uncomfortable sight of some guys trying very hard to suppress their erect manhoods by putting their hands in their pockets in public. The kind of war going on between that hand in that pocket and the "roaring lion" it is trying to tame in his underwear can only be imagined. That is how serious the embarrassment can be. 

One thing that is clear is that, it is still a valid observation that men are stimulated by what they see and so they only need a place to have coitus. Women on the other hand are stimulated by what they hear and so they need a reason to copulate. This is an interesting difference that separates men from women and which should never be ignored. 

It is on this note that I want to appeal to our ladies to please help us in this heavenly race by covering every critical private areas in their bodies whenever they are going out. Sisters, monks are humans too!

As a matter of fact, all men are vulnerable to female indecent dressings. It is just that many of the men have decided to carry their crosses, embarking on a long walk to calvary and accept undeserved crucifixion and death on the iron cross of silence. 

After all said and done, it is to be reiterated that the need for decent dressing cannot be over emphasised for as you dress is the way you will be addressed. 

Don't tell me I'm not holy but I won't disagree with you either. 

Cheers. 

-Ogiri John Ogiri.